Generally this is not something I would blog about but I know there are others out there that have trouble with this in relationships.. therefore after reading something I wrote some time ago ABBA Father is urging me to post it… This can go both ways.. in a relationship/marriage/cohabit or other wise even boyfriend and girlfriend… Personal experience through out my entire life along with some research prompted me to write this.. I pray that the message is clear to those in this kind of environment and get the heck out of it … Firstly you cannot change them… Secondly if you think that you can help them you are mistaken… Thirdly if you think it is all your fault then you likely need help yourself to deal..


Alcoholism is a disease and can destroy the functionality of the human body.

Yet they stay in denial continually saying, “I can’t help it” “I didn’t drink that much” “I wasn’t drunk”. It destroys the individual, relationships and marriages. Any one married to a drunk knows the turmoil they put you through. Unhappiness low self esteem and frustration as they suck the life out of you and  is the end result of trying to deal with a drunk. Alcoholics are killing themselves with a slow death … when all of a sudden they start getting sick and then blame it on something else and think alcohol is going to fix it. It dehydrates your body causing headaches and kills brain cells. They don’t even have time to regenerate those brain cells when they drink all the time.. They will lash out at you at the smallest of things. This is not a relationship… it is abuse… I have done enough research on this subject to know what it does to all your organs. The liver is the largest organ in the human body and it is used as a filtering system. When that goes the whole system is going to shut down causing other diseases… Ever wonder why for decades they have promoted and legalized it’s use? Cause the PTB know it is a money maker in every category.. through sales, fines, jail time and death.
As believers we are to be of sober mind … a drunk is not sober and the WORD tells us to refrain from strong drink.. that does not mean that you lay off the hard liquor and drink beer.. Beer has a lot of yeast in it and that in itself causes a lot of problems… too much yeast is not good for the human body..Look up Candida…

1Corinthians 5:6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?


1Corinthians 5:7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us:

We are to take care of our bodies to the best of our ability not abuse them. The words coming out of a drunks mouth are all of the filthy flesh in ignorance and belligerents.

Proverbs 23:21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
1Corinthians 5:11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such a one no not to eat.
Ephesians 5:18 And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit;
Revelation 22:11 He that is unjust, let him be unjust still: and he which is filthy, let him be filthy still: and he that is righteous, let him be righteous still: and he that is holy, let him be holy still.

If you have anything to add to this through your own experience please feel free to comment so others will be aware of the danger they are in staying in this type of relationship.


I build the house

Building blocks.~Author Glynda

I make up the building blocks of your lives – My Word, My ways, My Holy Spirit. Piece by picresized_1376179878_Holy Spirit9piece, your destiny is built by Me.

Your obedience is the key that unlocks the door to your destiny. Many of you pray to Me to take you in, yet you yourselves are holding the key.

If you refuse Me, refuse to obey My commands, you shall not enter the door to what I have planned for you. You shall not experience the great things I have shown you, what has been prophesied over you.

I build the house, but you hold the key.

Will you come in with Me?

Rev. 3:8: I know thy works: behold, I have set before thee an open door, and no man can shut it: for thou hast a little strength, and hast kept my word, and hast not denied my name.

Psalm 127:1: Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

Where are you now .. ?


Anything that comes first between you and our Father/Yahveh, His son Yahshua HaMashiach/Jesus Christ and the  Ruach HaKodesh/Holy Spirit, is an idol. Messiah said He is the way the truth and the life nothing and no one can come to the Father except through Him. He is the ONLY WAY Broad is the way that leads to destruction but narrow is the gate that leads to eternity and very few will find it. Our Kings Bride is a itty bitty shining light in piles and heaps of dung through out the world. Don’t you think this grieves him immensely? It grieves me! So it must grieve the most high KING!! He gave us free will what do you choose? You better make up your complacent carnal minds up quick cause your running out of time. Heaven or Hell? It is time to clean up your act and get your priorities straight. Our lives are like a petal blowing in the wind. We are here for one purpose to be sanctified and redeemed so we can spend eternity with Him. But God knew before the foundations of this world who would be faithful and who would not. Consider yourselves being tested. Did you pass the test? I sure hope so! Some did, some haven’t.